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Author Griffiths, Jonathan, 1968-

Title Asperger meets girl : happy endings for Asperger boys / Jonathan Griffiths ; foreword by Hugh Jones
Published London ; Philadelphia : Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 2008

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Description 1 online resource (111 pages) : illustrations
Contents Front cover ; Asperger Meets Girl: Happy Endings for Asperger Boys ; FOREWORD BY HUGH JONES ; PREFACE ; CONTENTS ; 1 What Problem Am I Trying to Solve Here?; 2 A Nerd's Eye View of Human Sexuality; 2.1 Idea 1: The space of possibilities; 2.1.1 Plotting some points in the space; 2.1.3 Swinging; 2.1.2 Old-fashioned romance; 2.1.4 Student fantasy; 2.1.5 Coming up roses; 2.1.6 Slippery when wet; 2.2 Idea 2: The conventional games; 2.2.1 The conventional male game; 2.2.2 The conventional female game; 2.2.3 And?; 2.2.4 Revisiting the extracts; 2.3 Idea 3: Relationship space
2.3.1 Graphs of relationship space2.3.2 How much do you love me? Quantitative attributes of relationships; 2.3.3 Subjectivity of relationships; 2.3.4 Intermission; 2.3.5 Defining the centre; 2.3.6 Why can't people just say what they mean?; 2.3.7 The extracts revisited (again); 3 Things to Try; 3.1 The collusive relationship; 3.1.1 Why so slow?; 3.1.2 What does this 'collusion' involve?; 3.1.3 Where does it get you?; 3.2 How sex joins on to real life; 3.2.1 Sensuality; 3.2.2 Attention; 3.2.3 Power; 3.3 Strategic preparation; 3.3.1 Get a body; 3.3.2 Get a persona; 3.3.3 Get a look
3.3.4 Your fellow men3.3.5 Platonic women; 3.3.6 Good persistence and bad persistence; 3.4 Tactical preparation; 3.4.1 Tactical goals; 3.4.2 Times and places; 3.4.3 Your fellow men (again); 3.4.4 Look (again); 3.6 No, actual contact; 3.6.1 Confidence; 3.6.2 Decisiveness; 3.6.3 Herself in particular; 3.6.4 Colluding again; 3.5 Contact; 3.5.1 Staring and personal space; 3.5.2 The art of apology; 3.5.3 Conversation; 3.5.4 Your feelings, considered from a tactical point of view; 3.5.5 The last mile; 4 Afterword; 5 Appendix: Some supplementary thoughts; 5.1 Theoretical context; 5.1.1 Philosophy
5.1.2 Psychoanalysis5.2 Cartesian diagrams of the space of possibilities; 5.2.1 Old-fashioned romance; 5.2.2 Swinging; 5.2.3 Student fantasy; 5.2.4 Coming up roses; 5.3 Suggested para-academic research; 5.3.1 Para-academic?; 5.3.2 Numbers for the graphs; REFERENCES
Summary Men with Asperger's Syndrome, young and old, experience difficulty with social interaction, which can be a stumbling block when it comes to getting a girlfriend. Here is a book that demystifies the enigma of 'relationships' by explaining everything in Asperger-friendly terms (some of them mathematical, naturally). Asperger Meets Girl provides hope for all hopeless wooers by offering a choice of three interrelated abstract models for understanding boy-girl relationships. And, to make life easier, these models are presented in graph form where possible. The book also gives valuable practical tip
Bibliography Includes bibliographical references (page 111)
Notes English
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Subject Asperger's syndrome -- Patients -- Sexual behavior
Asperger's syndrome -- Social aspects
Humour.
Coping With Disability.
HEALTH & FITNESS -- Diseases -- Nervous System (incl. Brain)
Form Electronic book
LC no. 2007035090
ISBN 9781846427565
1846427568
128178186X
9781281781864
9786611781866
6611781862