Cover; Half Title; Title Page; Copyright Page; Dedication; Table of Contents; About the Author; Preface; Chapter One What is gestalt therapy?; Chapter Two Succeeding at everything, even stressing less; Chapter Three Three generations of betrayal; Chapter Four Marianne's memories; Chapter Five Inside the walls; Chapter Six Put on your own mask first; Chapter Seven Freeze; Chapter Eight The bearded lady; Chapter Nine The empty chair; Notes; References; Index