1. The problem of mismatch -- 2. 'Stairhead seminars' -- 3. As others see us -- 4. Learning to listen -- 5. The other foot forward -- 6. Experience-based learning -- 7. Shared awakening -- 8. Partnership in preparation -- 9. The watershed -- 10. Towards a working model -- 11. Risking reality -- 12. The system -- and the sugared almonds -- 13. Learning to relate -- 14. Seeds for the city